I spent the BEST WEEKEND EVER with my girls from da BURG....we've known each other half our lives and we've all experienced the same things JUST at different times of our lives....
we shopped together, went to church together, cried together, listened to go-go (Sardines HEY and pork n beans) and house music and drank so much booze together it was ridiculous...
my friend had a full blown bar IN HER HOUSE..we concocted every drink imaginable and we went thru 4 yearbooks, 6 photo albums and 2 dean and deluca bags of photos!
I'm gonna post some my college photos because truly they show the TRUE ME! WOW!
from the spandex biker shorts and reeboks, to the too big for my face eyeglasses, to the size 2 cheerleading outfit, to all the OMEGA man we chased and devoured (we had 2 albums alone of all of our que boyfriends) WOW! we wore pink timbalands, leather trenchcoats with magenta sweatsuits...we smelled like liz claiborne realities and we listened to Maureen by Sade 24/7
those were the days...but anyways..
the most important part of the weekend was just how all of our conversation centered around the men in our lives...past, present and what we want in the future...
and there was only one complaint
Why are men intimidated by women that are doing well for themselves?
wtf?? I read so many blogs daily written by men talking about how he wants his woman to be successful/have a hustle (right sbm??) , cook, have a nice body, give him head on a regular basis and let him hang with his boys from time to time
but when we make too much money they feel inadequate
when we feed them too much they get santa bellies and blame our mashed potatoes
when our bodies are all hard and we got the 6-pack they look at themselves with disgust
when we give them head...well they don't complain about that but they always want more
and when we let them hang with the boys...they do stooopid shit!
but the main theme that got me is that when a man has someone that can pay her bills on time, buy them special gifts, treat them to dinners and movies
the man feels less than a man
he then wants to feel more needed and more than likely turns to someone that is NEEDY!!!
he turns away from the I- N- D- E- P-E - N -D - E- N- T woman to someone that has nothing going on...
men say they don't want a woman without any dreams but when we have too many they say we are being extravagant or unrealistic
one BFF's boyfriend said her house was too big
one BFF's boyfriend said she should downsize from her truck to a car
shit I've had guys say they were intimidated because I worked all the time
its like men bitch and moan about wining and dining women but when they meet a women that doesn't need alladat they complain, rebel and end up finding someone that does....
*sigh*
men gotta love em...."I eat em in the morning and I eat em in the night"
Monday, February 18, 2008
overachievers anonymous....
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men gotta love em...."I eat em in the morning and I eat em in the night"
True dat!
crunch... show me my opponent... crunch crunch ... show me my opponent! ~Weezy F. Baby's, baby!
We all want what we don't have.
Then when we get it? We want something else.
Glad you and the girls had a good time. Nothing like a ladies weekend of fun!
but when we make too much money "they feel inadequate
when we feed them too much they get santa bellies and blame our mashed potatoes
when our bodies are all hard and we got the 6-pack they look at themselves with disgust
when we give them head...well they don't complain about that but they always want more"
LMBO!!!!! SO TRUE!
sounds like yall had a great time! and your thoughts are true in alot of cases. i wonder those type of men are intimidated or just can't hang and wont admit it.
Thanks for the shout out. You know I love powerful independent women. I have dated two women who made more than me, and both had master's ... which I don't currently posses.
I can't speak for everybody, but that was sexy as hell too me. One of them sent me her credit score as foreplay ... whew ... just thinking about it gets me flustered ... LOL
And what you know about go-go music??? Gonna need something a little more current than Sardines ... LOL again.
Hey GG! Glad you're smiling and had a good time with your girls. These thoughts about the men are so true. But at the same time, so many of us ladies spend too much time worrying about what the men think, about what we've gotta do to get one, what we've gotta do to keep one, instead of working on what we've gotta do to accomplish that next goal, reach that next level for ourselves. The men are nice to have around, but in the end, the self is the only thing that is truly certain in life...
word.
The writer is totally fair, and there is no question.
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